If you don't want to argue then don't bring up the topic, it's that simple

Here's something that happens in my house and I'm willing to bet it happens in yours. Your spouse says something and you have a differing opinion. You say what you have to say or start to and they cut you off and say they don't want to argue about it. Or ask you, "Why do you have to argue?" Well lets see. I happen to have a differing opinion so there for I'm going to state my case. This by the way since you stated your case I have the right to state mine. If you didn't want to have a discussion about it then why did you bring it up in the first place? Or there's this common discussion around many house hold. You'll say something your wife doesn't agree with or like and her response is to with hold sex or to make you sleep in another country. Too me this sounds very high school level. If you have to make threats like that because someone says something you don't like, you’re not being very mature. Ever notice it is only women who make threats like this. You never hear a man say. Well dear if you say that again I'm you'll never get sex again. Or,"I'm not going to talk to you. If a guy did say that his wife or girlfriend would have a fit but for some reason women find this to be an intelligent thing to say not realizing how high school level it really sounds. No offence but I outgrew saying things like this when I was about twelve. But most otherwise inelegant women I know who are in there thirty's forty's and even fifty's still talk like this and then wonder why their husbands/boyfriends make fun of them. If you don't want to argue or debate something then don't bring it up until you're ready to discus it because if your husband/boyfriend has a differing opinion he is going to say it and a news flash for many woman. He has a right to express his opinion too. The freedom to express ones self does not just apply to the female. It applies to everyone. So if you don't want to argue about it then don't bring it up. And if your husband/boyfriend has an opinion on the subject he is has every right to argue his point. If you don't want to hear what he has to say then don't bring up the topic.